My first wife and I moved our family to Maui. After a difficult divorce, I left the island, but I needed to return to fully heal.

Courtesy of Kimanzi Constable

I met my first wife working at a fast food restaurant and developed a friendship that turned into a relationship. We were married three months after we met — the day after my 18th birthday. Like me, she was from Milwaukee, and we raised three kids in Wisconsin.