Instead of downsizing, we bought a bigger house. Our family uses the space, even if cleaning is endless and bills are higher.

• 06/17/2025, 5:13 AM
• businessinsider.com

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When my husband retired from the Navy, we were in our mid-40s and ready to settle into civilian life. While many of his colleagues were downsizing and preparing for their "empty nest" years, we were heading in the opposite direction.