I became friends with a woman 40 years older than me. She taught me how to live.

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I met Marlee in a writing group. At the time, I was in my 30s with two young kids living in a starter house. She had responded to an ad that another writer friend and I had posted. We were looking to expand our critique group. Marlee's response was something along the lines of, "If you don't mind an old lady showing up, I'd love to join you."