As a child of divorce, I did everything in my power to maintain a strong, healthy marriage. I accidentally sabotaged it.

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As a young child, I couldn't get enough of hearing my parents' divorce story. I thought I was just a curious kid for many years, but looking back, I realize I was digging for something specific — the why. Why did they get divorced? What went wrong? How does it come to that, and what are the first signs?